Memilih Pasangan Hidup Yang Dari Tuhan

There are so many young people who fall in the association of men and women . The cases are common among young people is :

    Resulting miscast couples breakup that makes heartache , bitterness , trauma , etc.
    Ultimately miscast as married couples , like alat bantu sex hell in the world
    Gratuitous hang out / ' dating ' the wrong way so it falls into sin of fornication even adultery
There are several things to note in the relationship between young children men and women :
The love of Christ is the basis of friendship ( 1 Timothy 5:12 , 2 Timothy 2:22 )
Since learning of young friends with full purity because marriage is a life-long friendship . Remember that every relationship has to start from the love of Christ in our lives . We can build a good relationship with if we have experienced the love of the Father and restored . A person is not worth looking for or get a partner if that person has not met certain requirements of both men and women . Both of these people should be restored first. If someone immature fruit , then the fruit will taste bitter . So it is with us , if we build a relationship yet mature , it will display a variety of problems because we are not yet ready to be enjoyed ( not ripe )
Spouse in accordance with the standards of God ( 2 Corinthians 6:14-15 )

    Should faith , the same vision . God has a specific standard in choosing a life partner should Spouse faith , balanced, equal and have the same vision .
a) faith .
The Bible strongly forbids us choose mates outside of Christ as the light can not be united with the dark . There is no term speculation in this regard . We can not as if it is like a ' hero ' that will convert our partner
b ) Balanced
does not mean that everything should be the same , but balance means we can follow the path of thoughts and actions our spouse . Examples unbalanced . That very smart man , a graduate S3 , while the female primary school graduates , then these two would be difficult to communicate . Actually wealth, position , intelligence , and other tribes did not deter us , and is not a primary requirement , but it would be a problem if not addressed and resolved from the beginning . The important thing here is balanced in the way the mind and spiritual levels ( equally able to serve and fulfill the plan of God in their lives )
c ) the same vision
means we have agen alat bantu sex the same vision as our partner . The same vision does not mean serving or have calls in the same field , but are mutually supportive to support a vision that can be achieved by cooperation between them . Example : the man an evangelist , a prayer that women who work together to win souls .
Terms man should get a pair ( a real man ) :
     Are mature ; A man should be a priest in the family , because the husband symbolizes Christ . A man must be spiritually mature and has been restored so that women will be able to guide and make decisions within the family , rather than controlled by the wife
    Having a vision / purpose in life ; Therefore he has a clear direction in life to fulfill God's plan for his life with a woman as a helper to jointly fulfill the vision that God has given to them
    loving partner ( Ephesians 5:25)

    be responsible
    already working
Terms woman should get a pair ( wise woman ) :
1 . Having a vision , woman is a helper , but she also had to have his own vision , not dependent on men. A woman must have a clear vision received from God , in which vision was commensurate with his partner 's vision to fulfill the plan of God in their lives
2 . Beautiful inside and out , A woman must have beauty inside and out. He also must be good at taking care of his body . Especially important in the beauty ( inner beauty ) which is a major factor . A woman had to be recovered from a variety of bitterness and disappointment . He should not be alat bantu sex kimia  looking for a partner because of loneliness , lack of affection , etc. , so that love is only an outlet for emotional needs . A woman should be completely restored in advance so that he can support his partner with extraordinary . Did not drop but instead make their partners successful
3 . Be subdued men - men ( Ephesians 5:22-24 ) , Woman was created as a helper of men , but women are not a maid . Nevertheless, women have to learn submission to the spouse . He should not have a controlling spirit that is always in control of men , because men are the head
Engagements Not Dating Mundane

    From the beginning there was the certainty of marriage, not try - try
Male-female relationships should immediately be considered to marriage. Not to look for sheer pleasure . Not to fill the lonely hearts or empty . Often young people caught up in choosing a mate with a system of ' trial and error ' or trial and error . If yes so fit and get married , if not break up with him . This system has a bad impact . Both sides or one side will feel pain , and for women , it is likely he will be rated ' poor ' by the environment because of mutually ' girlfriend '

    Basic relationship is God's love , not lust romance
Often young children have a male-female relationship based on lust romance . Possessed love is not love but the love of eros, agape filled with lust . In this case , there are some things that should not be done at the time of ' dating ' or friendship between men and women :
- Hand in hand
- Cuddle
- Kissing ( any )
- Physical contact of any kind
Why is it forbidden ? Because even if it seems trivial , things above jasa SEO Terbaik  ( physical contact ) will push us to do things even further thus causing even adultery fornication . Be careful with the lies of the devil ! ! !